Saturday, January 13, 2007

Strangers To Lovers

If strangers speak with honesty
And keep it real from the day they meet
Then a friendship is soon to follow
If a friend can be there in a time of need
And willing to give as much as they recieve
Then in no time friends will turn into lovers

-AAries

Real words right there, but I have a question. Almost everyone agrees that you and your partner should share a friendship, right? In the same token, why do people say friends shouldn't become lovers?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Almost everyone agrees that you and your partner should share a friendship, right? In the same token, why do people say friends shouldn't become lovers?
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I don't understand that either. My thing is, if you know the person first... wouldn't that cut out a lot of the b.s.?

I started a relationship with a friend of a few years, around three years ago, and we would probably still be together if he didn't join the military.

Coco LaRue said...

If you have a good friend and then the relationship doesn't go well (and at some level, few really do), then you can never get that friendship back. I've done it before and in every single instance, the friendship has never been the same. I lost one very good friend over a failed romance and I've regretted for the last five years.